Here we go...
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Sept 22nd 2012
Matt and myself were at his house at the dinner table on his laptop.
Matt - "I wanna go away somewhere...I have a week off in October and then in December."
Me - "okay.... What do you have in mind?"
Matt - *opens Internet window and types in redtag.ca* " let's check prices for Cuba."
So we check and end up finding this really good deal for 7 days in Varadero Cuba, at the Mercure Playa De Oro 4 stars, all inclusive, for $345 with 290 air taxes. Amazing right?!
Matt pulls out his credit card and books the trip. I kept silent the whole time. I couldn't believe this was happening.
Are we really going away?
On vacation?
Together? Alone?
Am I really doing this!?!
Am I dreaming?!?
No! I'm not dreaming! This is real!
Matt - "Alright, it's official... We Are Going To Cuba!!!"
He turned to his mom right away and told her, she was already listening though and was happy for us. We both deserve it.
I freaked out, couldn't believe this was actually happening. The tickets were booked! Seats were chosen I'm going to Cuba!!!
For some reason I'm writing this with lacklustre but I swear it picks up! I find this to be a small introduction. Besides at this point reality hadn't hit me yet.
I'm going to take a big lead forward to October the 20th when it finally did.
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Oct 20th 2012
Me - "Matt, we have 6 days left. I have nothing packed, I don't know what to bring and I'm freaking out!!!"
Freaking out was an understatement. I was having full blown anxiety attacks. Sleeping wasn't an option anymore either since it became impossible.
You see, this was the first time I was going on vacation. Well that's a lie, I went to Portugal for 3 weeks with my best friend and her family, but this was way different.
A boyfriend, whom I haven't been dating even a year, in a third world country, for a week! Without family?!? This was too spontaneous for me and I wasn't doing well with the pressure.
You see, my life at the time was a circus. My mother 2 months prior just had hip surgery. She had fallen and broken her hip. How did she fall? From drinking. But that's a whole other story on it's own.
Not only was I having family problems but my car kept falling apart. Flat tire, casket leak, you name it, Roxy had it. Money was an issue at the time since I was having issues at work... Kinda like I am right now. Bitch boss = No clients = No $ ... *sigh*
But this is supposed to be a happy story, so let's move on.
Despite everything that could possibly go wrong, my stress levels were going through the roof.
Me and Matt would get into 2-3 arguments a day. I take full responsibility of course. Especially when I would use lines like;
"Why am I bothering to go with you anyways?! All we are going to do is fight!"
Or
"What if something bad happens to us?"
He hates when I have negative thoughts about our relationship ....
... This wasn't true, not all we do is fight.It was my stress that was causing problems. I knew that and so did he.
He put up with alot of my crap and I couldn't thank him more for sticking by me. It definitely isn't easy being with me. I consider it more of a full time job...
October 26th came ever so fast. We had gone shopping finally in-between us both working and Matt's schooling. We do so well together that thinking about it makes me smile. We get things done fast and agree on everything together. *Sigh*
October 25th 9 pm, we finally had everything and were ready to pack before we got some shut eye.
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Oct 26th 2012 - 12:34 am."Matt it's still not going to fit! We need a bigger suitcase!"
"Ugh! It will fit! Just let me do it!"
"Okay if you say so... We are going to need a bigger suitcase... Just watch"
"Just go to sleep, we have a long day ahead of us. I'll finish up and then join you."
Shut eye? HA! It was 2:15 am when Matt decides that I was right and we needed a bigger suitcase. Of course! Why listen to me in the first place?
After 2 hours of us arguing about the dumb bag, I finally couldn't stay awake any longer and went to sit on the couch where I immediately passed out.
Matt unfortunately, stayed up and repackage everything in 2 separate suitcases cause 1 wasn't going to handle both of our crap. Besides, we also had alot of "gifts" for the people we would encountered in Cuba. Toiletries, toys, clothes, yep, a vacation and humanitarian trip. We were proud.
Matt got no sleep at all as were I got 2 and a half. 4:30 am rolls around and it's time for us to get a move on since our flight is at 6:25 am.
Matt's dad gives us a ride to the airport were he drops us off at the departure area.
Hugs and goodbyes are exchanged and the good ol'
"Have a good time and be safe" are enforced.
We proceed to check in, security and all that jazz till we get to the waiting area. We eat a $20 sandwich that tasted like shit for breakfast before boarding.
"All passengers boarding for flight to Veredro Cuba please proceed to line up"
Okay well obviously not worded like that, but you get it!
At this point I'm shitting bricks!
"Why am I doing this? Why!? Why?! Why?!"
"Oh would you relax!"
"AHHH"
We find our seats, put away our carry on, and sit down. At this point I am about to have an anxiety attack. Matt grabs my hand and looks me in the eyes...
"Do you not want to do this with me?"
"...Of course I do...I'm just scared.."
He smiles...."Everything will be okay," he kisses my hand, "I promise."
I smile back... He always knows how to calm me down.
"Just close your eyes and get some more sleep, we have a full day ahead of us when we land. It will only be a three hour flight."
"Okay:"
So we lifted the arm rests and curled up together and fell asleep. Every so often we would wake up cause the captain would make an announcement about a land mark or something that was interesting to look out the window for. He was really good, informative and the flight was perfect! Absolutely no turbulence!
Three hours flew by and we were getting ready to land in Cuba!
It was 9:15 am when we landed. I was so excited! I just kept turning to Matt and squealing like a little pig!
We landed and well you know the protocol of everything after, go through customs and claim luggage. Smooth sailing from there, everything was pretty fast and we were on the bus that would take us to our resort in no time.
The ride through Havana city was awesome, our spokesperson from Signature Vacations was very informative and funny. The only thing I will never forget from that bus ride was this older man, maybe in his 50's just being a class clown on the bus. Yelling, drinking beer, chatting up everyone about everything. Also, these four younger guys that were also on our bus going to more of a "party" resort. They were talking with the older man for the whole bus ride. We were sitting behind them.
Our stop finally! Oh My Gosh! The place looked gorgeous!
You see, we did plenty of research that I didn't mention before, but we settled with this one over the others. The ratings and feedback weren't the best on it, but we decided it was our first time, we will learn from it. Most of the negative feedback was about the food and the look or cleanlinesses of the hotel and resort. Apparently it needed renovations?
| This was the lobby bar were we spent most of our time! |
Needless to say in both our opinions or experience, the place was perfect! Looked amazing and right up our ally. The only thing was everything was soaked due to the fact a hurricane had just blown through no more then 12 hours ago. But, the groundsmen were already on top of it and cleaning. By day two the resort was dry and spotless.
| Pool area was soaked from hurricane rain storm. |
The first thing we do is check in and put our luggage aside since we couldn't do anything till 12 pm. That's when the room would be available for us to check in. We found the bell-hopper and right away Matt started to use his self taught Spanish language. Yes, he had taught himself to speak Spanish! AMAZING!
We automatically made friends with the bell-hopper who's name was Pedro. He was so nice and took great care of us.
To make a long story a little shorter, we ended up grabbing a drink or 2 and exploring the resort and the beach to kill time. We ended up back at the bar and running into this other Canadian couple who came from the St. Catherine's area. We talked, shared some laughs and they shared some horror stories of their room that the just got 20 minutes before they came to the bar.
| Really Good Drink :) |
| Canadian Couple |
"We have like ants in our bed," she said. "And the room smells weird and is freezing!"
They actually gave us a tour to their room and showed us what the room looked like. It was kinda run down looking and there was an odour. They were on the first floor though and their balcony was surrounded by soaking wet plants. Of course there would be a musky smell.
We toured the beach and had lunch with them. We realized it was now 3 pm and we forgot about our room check in and luggage.
What? Our stuff is already in our room?
Pedro had taken it upon himself to bring our stuff to our room! And then offered us a ride there in the carts! Is this happening?!? Top service and to make it even better....we ended up getting a room on the second floor with ocean view! We didn't pay for that!!! 1110 was the number of our room, I will never forget that number.
| Pedro giving us a ride to our room! |
Our room was fairly clean, the bathroom needed a bit more, but everything was taken care of the second day. We were satisfied.
The first day flew by, we hung out mostly with the Canadian couple we met. This only happen the first day though. They became weird and both kinda just kept our distance and became more acquaintances. We ended going to the beach late at night before we went to bed that night. We settled in by 11:30 pm so we could start the second day fresh.
| Matching wrist bands cause we're cool like that |
"Goalllllllllllllllllllllllllllll oooooooooooooooo"
*Infamous laser noises*
| Bein Sport all day everyday! |
***
Oct 27th, Day 2
"Matt! Matt! Wake up!!! The sun is out! Let's go!!"
"ugggh... What time is it?"
"7:30! Lets go!"
"Noooooooo" *Covers head with pillow*
Yep! I was excited and ready to go, running around the room grabbing things I would need for the day yelling and throwing things at Matt every so often to get him up. We had agreed on waking up at 9 everyday and set alarms just incase. We didn't need one though since I was up everyday at 7:30 am like clockwork :)
"Let me sleep!"
"No! Sleep when your dead! Let's go!"
Everyday was like this and a giant battle to get Matt out of bed.
Breakfast and beach was the routine we adapted everyday, lunch was just snacks we would get from the bar by the pool. We lounged and drank and slept on the beach for 5-6 hours a day.
This vacation really was for R and R.
| Tanning and sleeping! |
| The drink! Not me! |
Today wasn't just any day though, today would be the day that our relationship changed!
| Yummy! |
| The restaurant |
It was 9 pm, we had just finished having dinner and we had made it back to our room. We sat on the bed and just laughed and giggled about the stupidest and smallest things.
"... *sigh*... You"
"... You? What does that even mean?"
"... You means you.." He laughs and hides his face.
"... No! Tell me what you means! I wanna know since you always say it!"
After 10 mins of him just turning red, hiding his face and saying;
"I can't tell you"
I gave up and decided I wanted to go for a walk.
He ended up leading us to the beach.
It was fresh, and crisp, the moon was high and bright in the sky just shimmering over the rough ocean. The smell of the sea was intense, the waves were loud and obnoxious. It was gorgeous, just breaking.
We stopped for a second, just staring at eachother. Both quiet, not saying a word. Just listening to the ocean waves.
He touched my face and moved the hair that was blown in my face by the wind from the ocean.
He cupped my face in his hands and stared into my eyes. He smiled and kissed my nose then pulled me closer and hugged me tight.
He was making me nervous, my heart was racing. He kept exhaling heavily and sighing alot.
Was this it? Was he going to finally tell me how he felt?!?
"There's something I have been wanting to tell you for sometime now... I just don't know how you will react..."
Yep! I knew it! It was coming! I've been hoping he would tell me soon, for a while now actually. Guess it sort of is my fault that he hasn't seeing as how I fear mongered him into NOT saying it unless he meant it.
I would tell him how much I hated the words 'I love you' being thrown around. So obviously he was nervous.
He was taking so long to spit it out! I was getting frustrated! But I kept composure till he did.
"I ... * gibberish*"
".... What?!... What did you say?"
His face dropped! He looked so disappointed! But I didn't hear him! It was so windy and the waves were so intense plus the fact he practically whispered it!
".... What's wrong Matt? Why do you look like that?"
"Why did you make that face?"
"I didn't hear what you said, that's why"
He gasped and pulled me away to look at me in the eyes;
"... I said I love you..."
".... I love you too"
He smiled, sighed and kissed me. My heart was racing and his hands were shaking. We stood there in the same spot for another 5 minutes just staring at eachother.
We finally decided that we were getting cold. That and the fact we could taste the salt off eachother and my hair smelled like ocean mist and was all tangled. So much for showering...
Before we left Canada Matt had promised me to go to the club with me at least two times while we were there, so tonight we decided would be one of those nights.
We went around 11:30 pm, it was dead at first but picked up pretty fast. We had so much fun, just being with eachother and dancing like no one was watching, although everyone was. We decided to leave around 1:45 am, showered and went to bed. Our relationship had taken a step forward, but it wasn't the words themselves that grounded that. It's what was to come a day later.
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Oct 28th, Day 3
Pretty much the same as the other two. Got up early thanks to me and just wasted away at the beach. We barely spent time at the swimming pool unless we wanted to go swimming. At the beach they had the red flag up indicating that it was dangerous to go into the ocean due to the high waves that were still from the hurricane passing over the ocean.
| Red flag indicating danger |
| Pool area |
| Me being sick lol |
| Pro cigar smoker ;) |
Well! Let's just say that it's all fun and games till someone gets hurt..Mainly me...
The tobacco was so intense that I ended up getting a high which caused me to become nauseous and light-headed. Long story short I spent the rest of the night vomiting my brains out in the bathroom and curled up crying in a corner bedside the toilet. YUP, attractive.
| Spent alot of time here :/ |
Matt took good care of me though and held me the whole night.
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Oct 29th, Day 4
Today was just like the other day too. Woke up at 7:30, changed, went for breakfast and then went back to the room to suit up for the beach. Drinking and lounging was all we did for the rest of the day till 6-7 pm were we decided that bar sandwiches aren't food and we should probably go eat dinner.
After dinner we went for a bike ride off the resort for a bit before it got dark. Just a little exercise.
| I got my hair braided :) |
| Dinner outfit :) |
Time flew by and it ended up being 9:16 pm. We showered and got dressed to go down to the bar in the lobby for some social time. This is where the night gets interesting.
| Tymie |
| I can't remember her name for the life of me. |
Matt and myself had already been indulging in drinks for a good two hours now.
| Queen of Britain to the right lol |
Few more drinks later I had to pee! So I took a trip to the wash room. I felt fine, not drunk but warm and tingly, happy, confident. Anyways, I did my business and was washing my hands when this Russian woman came out of the stall trying to adjust her top. She was drunk! You could tell. She walked over to me by the sink and started laughing, she needed help with her bra strap, so I helped. She couldn't speak English, only Russian but somehow we were able to communicate.
| This is Mother Russia |
She attempted to explain to me in hand language that her flight was at 11:30 am, which I finally understood after the fifth attempt. She grabbed my hand and started running with me to her table. Matt who was still talking to the queen of Britain (the Canadians) spotted me and decided to join in.
"Drink Drink", said mother Russia.
This woman was huge! She was sitting at a table that consisted of 5 other Russians, a French man, and now a Portuguese when Matt joined.
| Apparently I took this photo :/ Although I don't recall.. There were more people there, they went to get drinks. |
| I look happy :) BTW the 2 men in this picture are the Russians that help me later on |
She gave me one of those plastic cups which happen to be full of vodka that was already at her table, there were 5 more where that came from! I drank the one she gave me, Matt had one of the other ones and the rest of them polished the others off before going to get another round.
| I look TRASHED..I don't remember this :( |
I recall only having the one she initially gave me, Matt told me I had 4 more afterwards. I don't remember any of this...
I must of already been long gone after the first drink and the drinks prior to joining their table.
Everything from here on is what Matt told me happened, I unfortunately do not remember anything at all no matter how hard I try.
This is the day my life changed...
"Are you sure you should be drinking that? You've already had 2"
"Ya! I'm fine!"
2 shots more and 20 minutes later...
"I'm going to the bathroom"
....This is were I get up and fall instantly to the floor beside the bar according to Matt.
The Russian woman grabs me and starts shaking me and slaps me 3 times to wake me up. I'm dragged the the bathroom and put in a stall where I do my business and fall out of the stall, not decently I might add. The russian woman immediately had Matt come in and fix me up, pull up my underwear and stuff.
The Russian men at the table had to carry me back to our hotel room. Matt couldn't do it cause for one he has a bad back, two he was just as drunk, and three well, I'm dead weight.
Back at the hotel room I'm loosing consciousness. Blacking out, slurring, not making sense anymore. Matt gets worried and decides that he should try and make me throw up the alcohol. This doesn't work seeing as I end up biting his finger and hurting him, drawing blood. He still continues to try and force his fingers down my throat to make me vomit. Trying to control my head isn't easy so I end up smashing my head around.
Matt at this point is scared, my eyes are rolling backwards into my head and I'm not communicating anymore. He props me up on the toilet in a puke position with my arms crossed under my head on the toilet seat and on my knees. I looked stable so he took off quickly to the lobby to have them call an ambulance.
On his way back to the room he spots me falling as he enters the room. From here all hell breaks loose...
I had fallen and smashed my head extremely hard on the floor. So hard that I ended up passed out.
Yes ladies and gents, I was now passed out with alcohol poisoning.
The ambulance arrived and took me to a nearby clinic of theirs in the city that is like a hospital. Matt never left my side, scared and crying he held my hand in the back of the ambulance. The ride was 20 minutes. Matt tells me that the whole entire ride to the hospital I could only mutter one thing...
"I LUVV YOU"
Now imagine this being screamed in a drunken Mexican voice for 20 minutes none stop. Yep, that was me...
Just before we reach the hospital is where the most scariest thing happens... I slipped into a comma... Between the concussion and alcohol poisoning, my system shut down.
8...
8 hours...
8 hours of waiting....
Will she wake up?
I can't imagine how Matt felt, nor do I ever want too..
The nurses told him all we can do now is wait. Wait for me to wake up. If she wakes up, the worst is over.
IV's, 2 injections, they tried to flush me out.
I urinated myself 5 times. All of which were on Matt since he put his head next to my leg.
Yes I had urinated on my boyfriend and he's still with me... That's love.
He was disgustingly sick from all the drinking, he was just as drunk. He made himself puke over 6 times to try and get the alcohol out of himself. He tried focusing on my breathing the whole time that the nurses told him that he doesn't have to check my pulse to know I'm breathing, just check to see my chest rising.
8 hours of excruciating waiting. He cried so much that day... Nurses and other people at the hospital had to calm him down multiple times.
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Oct 30th, Day 5 - 6:37 am
The sound of the machinery I was hooked up to... My eyes finally opened.
The first thing I see is Matt's face, red, swollen and puffy eyes as if he had been crying...
*Giant sigh* "NURSE! NURSE! SHES AWAKE!" *Matt screamed in Spanish*
".... Where am I?"
"don't move babe, you'll pull out the intravenous"
".. What's wrong Matt? Why are you crying? Where am I? What happened?!"
I was freezing, shaking, and started panicking... I wasn't getting answers as to what was going on. The only thing that was being said to me was to calm down and for me to not move.
My face hurt and felt swollen, my feet felt numb and I could barely feel them. I tried to wiggle my toes but had barely any strength.
The smell of urine was potent. It made me nauseous.
"Matt! Answer me please! What happened?!?"
I started to cry...
"I'll explain everything after when we get back to the hotel baby I promise just please try and stay still"
He broke down crying... This scared me even more.
He walked out of the room to pay for the services provided. Over 200 pesos were spent that night..
I was then taken off the table and placed in a wheelchair..There was a car waiting for us. I was weak but able to walk so I got in the car myself.
In the car Matt spoke to the driver in Spanish as I sat in the back-seat just thinking to myself.
I could of died....I wouldn't of even known.... I didn't feel or hear anything. I wasn't aware of anything that happened..I didn't even dream...
The last thing I had remembered was looking across the table at Matt. He was smiling and laughing and speaking in French to the only French man that was there. We were supposed to go to the club that night...I remember looking at him and saying;
"Are we still going to the club?"
"Why? This is so much more fun!"
...That was it.....After that, the last thing was waking up in the hospital looking at him, with tears in his eyes. What happened?
We arrived at the resort, weak and disoriented I made my way back to the hotel room.
"Stay here, just change and lie down, try to avoid bending over please. I need to go pay the cab driver."
I had a very bad concussion. I had smashed the left side of my head really bad when I fell in the bathroom. Not to mention all the other times I smashed my head around that night. I had no balance, could barely stand or walk a straight line. I couldn't focus, my vision was blurred and my face was bruised and in alot of pain, my bottom lip was busted and swollen. Body covered in bruises and bumps. What the hell did I do to myself!?!
"Matt! Please don't leave me! I'm scared!" I started crying.
"Baby I promise I'll be right back, I wont take long, just lie down and I will be with you soon." He kissed my forehead and then left.
I had to use the wash room so I went. While sitting on the toilet I put my head down on my hands... I got extremely disoriented and almost fell off the toilet. No wonder he said not to bend over...
Three minutes later the concussion started to get the best of me,I started panicking and started yelling out for Matt. I lay down on the bed but the room was spinning.
"Matt! Matt!" .. I opened the door and stood in the hallway and cried out for him again.
"Matt! Where are you?!" .. I started to cry. I was confused and scared.
I went to the railing near the staircase and stood there for 5 minutes just waiting for him, but nothing.
Too disoriented to use the stairs I just sat down on the steps and wept. I wanted Matt with me and I wanted to go home.
Pacing back and forth, he was taking forever...
20 minutes later I couldn't take it any more, leaving the hotel room door open, I made my way down the stairs, and down the pathway to the lobby. It must have been around 8 am because people were starting to come out. Grounds men cleaning and the pool boy watched me frantically head for the lobby entrance with tears in my eyes and my Pjs on.
As I approached the stairway that led to the lobby I saw Matt come through the doors. I yelled his name and started running towards him crying. He ran towards me and grabbed me.
"What are you doing here? Why are you out of the room? I told you to stay!"
"You left me! Why did you leave me! For so long!"
He sighed and hugged me tight...
"I had to go with them to the bank cause the money exchanger person wasn't open yet here. I'm so sorry baby"
Helping me keep my balance, we walked back to the room.
It was about 8:45 am, sun wasn't really out just yet and it was pretty windy.
"You are going to bed until you wear this off. I don't care how long this takes, I'm staying with you in bed."
I didn't want to stay in bed all day, but I was so exhausted a I felt like death. But I was starving!
"Let's go get breakfast first, then we can go back and sleep."
He agreed.
We got changed and headed to the restaurant for breakfast. We ended up running into the group of Russians that had helped me last night. They all asked me if I was okay and Matt told them I was hospitalized. We also ran into our Cuban mommy, yes let me introduce her.
| Cuban mommy <3 |
She was one of the waitresses in the restaurant who looked out for us and we did the same in return by giving her stuff for her grand kids. We had met so many nice people, we were definitely lucky. They all were concerned with my well being which was really nice. We also ran into Mother Russia who had been drinking vodka from the morning to kill her hangover? The hell !?
After breakfast we then decided to visit the nurse on site....El Capitan Useless might I add...She knew nothing and didn't help a bit.
Back at the room we ended up going to bed. Matt and I talked for a bit before I passed out. He explained some stuff to me but could never completely finish because he would start to cry.
The topic of love came up, probably because two days prior he had confessed his love for me. I believe at some point while I was babbling I questioned if he really did love me or if he just thought he did..
His words to me were;
"I do love you, I know with all my heart I love you. If I had any doubt or questioned it at all, last night had made it all clear to me. The thought of loosing you killed me. The thought of returning home without you slipped my mind. If something would of happened to you, I would return with you, but not alive."
My heart was content, and wrapped up in his arms I feel asleep.I slept for 4 hours, which was good. Took me awhile to go to sleep since I was delirious. Every time I closed my eyes the room would spin.
When I woke up it was around 2 pm. When I got up, I felt like I was going to die! I wanted to go home! Matt made some phone calls to Sunwing to try and book an early flight home but they rejected unless I would go to a hospital and get cleared okay to fly. So basically this is what we did.
We called for a taxi to take us back to the hospital we came from earlier that morning. We negotiated 25 back and forth. Unfortunately, the hospital only had a head X-ray which wasn't going to help at all so we had to get a doctors note to be sent to the hospital in the city of Varadero for a CT scan. We were so fortunate to have found such a kind hearted taxi driver who then negotiated 50 back and forth, which is actually dirt cheap seeing as this was almost an hour drive.
When we arrived there, the doctor had examined my head and signs and symptoms but was not able to perform a CT scan since their machine was broken. This meant I had to be sent to another hospital which was in the city of Matanza, even farther then the last one, another hour and a half drive. The taxi driver left the price at the same amount. Honestly this man was an angel.
Finally arrived there at around 6 pm. The driver stayed with us the whole time, taking care of me and making sure we didn't get taken advantaged off. Surprisingly, all the doctors, nurses, and surgeons we met there that took care of me spoke English and Spanish. This calmed my nerves and made my concussion symptoms a whole lot better. The worst was yet to come but before I explain what happen next, I want to describe to you what the hospital looked like.
Aren't you lucky to be living in a country where healthcare is a high priority. Please ladies and gents, DO NOT I repeat, DO NOT complain about our healthcare system.
The hospital I visited was run down, half of the walls had collapsed, and it reeked of sickness. The surgical tables or beds whatever they are were metal and were covered by a single sheet that was covered in blood stains. I'm not even kidding, it was really bad. The bed beside me had a drunken doped up man handcuffed to the bed and the only bathroom they had for patients was a small hole in the wall with a broken door, toilet had no seat, was backed-up , and the floor was torn apart and covered in piss. Not to mention there was no lighting in the bathroom since the electrical wires and cords were sizzling and hanging from the ceiling. Yah..comforting...
It was finally time for me to have my CT scan.... This was a terrifying experience for me. Let me elaborate; the door to the scanning room was a large metal garage door that had to be lifted from the ground...The room inside was made out of wood so it kind of reassembled a sauna. The people who were performing the scan only spoke in Spanish so I couldn't communicate with them at all, which made me nervous. Thank God for Matt and our taxi driver, seriously.
The scan was torture due to the concussion screwing around with my equilibrium. The entire time it felt like I was doing 360's in the machine. Finally it was over! My brain was fine thank God. Just a really bad concussion. Phew!
The CT Scan costed us another 300 something pesos...Which we couldn't pay for at the time since they didn't take Visa. They negotiated to come to our resort the next day at 2 pm to collect the money. This ended up being a mission and a half since the money exchange place in the resort for no apparent reason shut down? Okay? So they had to pick us up and take us to the bank. Everything was paid for and taken care of the next day.
When we finally arrived back to the resort it was 11:12 pm, we had wasted a whole day hospital jumping. We thanked the taxi driver graciously for his amazing services and the time he dedicated to us. He even stopped off at a gas station and bought us beverages. Yah! I know right?! We gave him some toiletries and clothes for his daughter. We grabbed a quick bite to eat and went back to the hotel. I was beat and needed to sleep it off.
The sad part was Matt blamed himself for all of this and every time we talked about it he would cry... This hurt me alot....
"I shouldn't of left you in the room by yourself, I shouldn't of trusted you by yourself without falling over." This is what he would repeat daily...
Me and Matt also made a vow that day to never drink again, and we didn't.
***
Oct 31st, Day 6 & 7
Day 6 and 7 are pretty much the same, wasting away at the beach, sleeping was all we did, we got super brown in the last 2 days. The weather was gorgeous plus 30 degrees, and the ocean was now accessible to swim in thankfully.
| Ocean time Finally |
| Owned by a wave lol |
During the two last days we exchanged emails and addresses with the Russians and with our Cuban mommy.
Matt decided the last 2 days to book the À La Carte for us. It was nice and very classy compared to the buffet restaurant we had been eating at daily.
| A la Carte 1 outdoors |
| A la Carte 2 indoors |
On the last night we were there, Matt had agreed to go to the club with me before we left. Before we went to the club we sat at the bar drinking virgin Pina Colada mixture where we ended up meeting a very funny British man.
He had a strong accent but had amazing sense of humour.
"We wanted to go swimming with the dolphins but it was way too expensive."
*In a British accent* "Well you could of just jumped into the lake where they keep them up the road"
"Are you allowed to do that?"
*In a British accent* "Well they can't stop you."
BAHAHAH
We departed around 11:46 pm and Matt and myself went to the club. We were there for about an hour and a half before we decided that we should get some rest since we have to be up early for our 9 am flight back to Toronto. That and I probably shouldn't over do it with my concussion and all.
We went back to the hotel room, changed and went immediately to sleep.
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Nov 2nd, Day 8
6 am came really fast and we were up and ready to grab our stuff and leave.
We said good bye to our favourite staff who basically forced us to eat breakfast and made us plates to eat outside while we waited for the bus to pick us up, and to our Russian friends.
| One of our favourite bartenders from the first day, Noel. |
Between the bus ride to the airport and boarding it was 9:10 am when we were seated.
Oh! A really funny addition to this story! Remember the 4 guys that we saw on the bus ride when we arrived in Cuba? We saw them again at the airport except one of them was in a wheelchair with a broken foot or ankle cause he was in a cast!... Just thought I would add that in there.. Guess they really did "party hard"
| Sad to be leaving =( |
The flight home was dreadful due to my head injury, so much pressure and pain and my ears were killing!
Still to this day Matt and myself have kept our vows to never touch alcohol again, and every time we talk about our story in Cuba we get teary eyed at the thought that I could have not been here today and how much stronger it has made us and our relationship.
This is it, finally I am done! It's been 2-3 days now I've been writing this story and here it is! Enjoy!!
Here are some pictures that I decided to add! Enjoy these too :)
| Matt and I on that horrible night. |
| Coconut anyone? |
| Yummy! |
| Our balcony |
| Cuba 2012.. Never to forget. |
| Stunning beach |
| Breathtaking. |
| Palm Tree! |
| Human Chess board! |
| Gorgeous! |
| I <3 You |
| We didn't get to swim with them *SAD FACE* |
| Beautiful Lobby |
| Photo Bomb! Hot Pink ! His name is Bitch Tits LOL |
| <3 *Sigh* |
| The 2 Russian men that carried my dead body to my room! |
| Lizard love. |
| Our maid was awesome! Something new everyday! |
| Cuban Mommy <3 |
| I freaking miss that tan! |
| Two Cubans :) |
| And this is why we call him "Bitch Tits" |
| Miss you Cuba </3 |
| Night time fun! |
| Thanks Love! See our maid is awesome! |
| Last dinner in Cuba </3 |
| This is Jesus! No really, that's his name! He made me that paper flower BTW! <3 |
| Goodbye Cuba :'( |
| Hello Toronto .. |

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