De-stress Me Please

I haven't written a blog in 2 days now which is okay because I was taking a 2 day vacation!

Where might you ask? Matt's house...

Yep, It's pretty sad when you refer to going from one house to another a vacation. Well if you lived at my house, you would totally understand why!

On Tuesday after my last two blogs, you would have noticed that me and Matt were fighting.. Why? I still don't know. The fight lasted 2 days and I hadn't seen him in 3. 

I couldn't sleep, I was a stress ball... Ugh! Why do I need him around me so much! The sad part is he know's it too.

"Don't fight it babe, it doesn't help you"

So Tuesday after work... If you can call it work... 4 people? ...Stupid B!@# of a boss!

Anyways, he met up afterwards with me at work, we drove back to my place so I could change out of my work clothes and went back to his. 

We had to pick up his little brother Miki from school and headed home. His mom had been making dinner and was now baking some Jewish cinnamon bread. I played with Miki and talked with his mom while Matt showered.

So sadly Matt's aunt has undergone surgery for stomach cancer last week on Thursday. She was doing well till Tuesday night where Matt's cousin Lina had texted his mom telling her that the aunt now has an "infarction."

Infarction:  In medical terminology means death of tissue or (necrosis) which is caused by an obstruction or blockage of the tissues blood supply. This leads to localized lack of oxygen.

Yah...not pretty.So she has sadly taken a turn for the worst and yesterday afternoon had to be rushed to surgery again to treat the area that is blocked. We are now waiting to find out how everything went and if she's doing better now.

So back to Tuesday night, we were talking about this, which is pretty depressing. Matt's dad came home and we all ate dinner. Lasagna was on the menu tonight and it was amazing! I was then invited to dinner again for Wednesday night, Mindy was making cod fish and she knew how much I love cod so she made sure to add that into her invite. Of COURSE I accepted!

After dinner, dishes, coffee and talking, we all sat down and watched Tv together where I had finally passed out on Matt's lap while he played a game on his laptop. I was exhausted!! I had absolutely no sleep the night before. Half an hour I slept on him until he decided that we should go downstairs and sleep there. He went down while I was still talking to his mom, he made our floor bed to which I joined him shortly after. "Matt and me time" lasted lasted two hours together before we both decided we need to get some sleep. 

I slept for 8 hours that night!

Day two or yesterday was the same, picked up Miki from school,  headed back to his house, dinner, talking, coffee and no Tv?

Nope, not tonight. Matt rushed us downstairs early, it was 8:50 when we went downstairs. We played video games for 3 hours and then Matt decided it was bed time pretty early too. 11:15 we were in bed already and by 1 am we were out for the count. I had a really good two days to recoup from the 3 horrible days I had without him.

*Sigh* I love that boy.

Work time! Wish me luck that I don't strangle her today.

Ciao!